so my guy friend just started harming again and being the awesome person that i am i showed him all my stop cutting techniques

he chose the paper chain project, i was like girly okay but cool

but adapted it so basically he made a calendar out of an a4 and crossed of days he didn’t cut

which is not the paper chain project as it’s obviously not a fucking paper chain

then he had the CHEEK to tell me that MY methods don’t work

AND he criticized EVERY method on the list.

“the paper chain project didn’t work!!”

well maybe if you’d made a fucking paper chain

and listened to me for once in your fucking life.

you can’t just make a calendar and expect to not want to cut yourself

what a fucking tosser

whaatmakesubeaautiful:

Self Harm Quiz

1. How old were you when you started self-harming?
•Younger than 4
•4-5
•6-7
•8-9
•10-11
•12-13
•14-15
•16-17
•18-19
•20-21
•Older than 21

2. How often do you self-harm?
•More than once a day
•Once a day
•Several times a week
•Once a week
•Two or more times a month
•Once a month
•Several times in a year
•Once a year
•I have stopped
•(I am trying to stop)
 
3. What method of self-harm do/did you primarily use?
•Cutting
•Burning
•Hair-pulling
•Scratching
•Interference with the healing of wounds
•Hitting or bruising
•Bone breaking - (ouch no thank you)
•Cutting and Scratching
•Cutting and Burning
 
4. If You Self Harm What Sexual Orientation Are You?
•Straight Male
•Straight Female
•Bi-Sexual Male
•Bi-Sexual Female
•Homosexual Male
•Homosexual Female
•Transgender Male maybe?
•Transgender Female
•Questioning Male
•Questioning Female
•Pan-sexual Male
•Pan-Sexual Female
•Prefer not to answer
 
5. Which Of These, If Any, Were Something You Struggle With Along With Self-harm?
•Anorexia
•Bulimia - I used to purge, but not enough to be classed as bulimic.
•Anorexia and Bulimia
•Suicidal Ideation
•Various Psychiatric Disorders (i.e. Bi-polar, Borderline Personality,OCD, Panic, Anxiety, PTSD, Dissociative, Impulse Control Etc.)
•Learning Disabilities
•A Mixture of the Above
•None of the Above
 
6. Do You Think That You (as An Individual) Need Professional Help To Stop Self-harming?
•Yes, The Only Way I Could Stop Is With Professional Help…
•No, I Have Stopped On My Own
•No, I Have Stopped On My Own Though I Still Struggle Often And Sometimes Mess Up
•I Have No Desire To Stop And Therefore Don’t Need Professional Help
•Yes, I Have Stopped With Professional Help (trying)
•I don’t think I could ever stop with or without Professional help
 
7. Are You Trying To Stop Self Harming?
•No, And I Don’t Want To Stop Ever.
•No, But I Would Like To Be Able To Stop.
•Yes, But I Am Not Doing Very Well.
•I Have Stopped But I Still Mess Up Every Once In A While.
•I Am Completely Self-harm free - or rather, have been for ages.
 
8. Does Anyone Know About Your Self Harm?

• It used to be just friends, now no doubt it’s everyone.

 
9. How many years have you been self-harming?
•1 or less years
•2 years
•3 years
•4 years
•5 years
•6 years
•7 years
•8 years
•9 years
•10 or more years
 
10. If You Self-harm, Were You Abused Or Neglected (either As A Child Or Later In Life)?
•No
•Yes, I Was (and am) Emotionally Abused
•Yes, I Was Physically Abused
•Yes, I Was Sexually Abused
•Yes, I Was Emotionally And Physically Abused
•Yes, I Was Physically And Sexually Abused
•Yes, I Was Sexually And Emotionally Abused
•Yes, I Was Emotionally, Physically And Sexually Abused
•Yes, I Was Neglected
•Yes, I Was Neglected As Well As Being Abused
 
11. Would you label yourself as emo?
•Yes
• No
•I don’t know
 
12. Do others label you as emo?
•Yes
•No
•I dont know
 
13. What would you or others label you as? (chose all that apply)
Please select all that apply.
•Prep
•Goth
•Emo
•Punk
•Nerd
•Poser
•Skater
•Jock
•Scene
•Gangster
•Other
•I don’t do labels
•There aren’t really any labels above that fit me
•Normal
 
14. What is your reaction when you see other people’s self-harm scars/cuts/marks? (choose all that apply)
Please select all that apply.
•I want to get to know them
•I wonder what they went through & if they are like me
•I want to get as far as possible from them so no one will find out about my own self-harm
•I will acknowledge them as someone who shares something in common with me
•I would never even acknowledge them
•Fear
•Interest
•Sadness
•Happiness
•Don’t really care
•No reaction
•Surprise

(Source: qore)

I want to look at all the blogs I still follow.

I wonder if they will have slowly evolved from anorexia/self harm/black and whote blogs to recovery, colourful food blogs.

I truly hope so.